Dream Guy: empasized on dream please!

-A love letter once in a while.. (does poets still exist?)
-must make me special
-spoils me!! (hahaha....)
Listens and understand my needs (ahem sensitive guy..)
-suprises me once in a while..(awww.. thoughtful!)
-doesnt have any vices (no smoking please!)
makes me laugh
-doesnt lie!!!
-Patient..
-will go shopping with me=)

Why is it imprinted in everyone's mind that there's one person that is meant for us and that whoever that person is he/she must be perfect..
it bothers me, why do we have this concept on the perfect mate, your soulmate, destiny...